"We went from being two people who were living in mutual disgust with the other, to two people who have reconnected with love.”
“For me, the surprising outcome is that where in the past I had a lot of difficulties talking about our relationship, now it seems like the most natural thing to do.”
"What we wanted, simply, was to get back to the place where we were when we fell in love, prior to kids and careers.”
“Paula has taught us and continues to reinforce, what we need to do not only to stay together but to want to stay together."
“I can give no stronger recommendation to anyone or any program."
"After just nine months of therapy, we can honestly say we are the happiest we have been in years.”
“Kerry has skillfully and quite miraculously helped us move from despair to hope as a couple.”
“I went into every session feeling nervous and left feeling optimistic.”
"I thought we had had gone past the point of no return and was only going to therapy on the last little bit of hope. Then we met Martha and our lives changed.”
“We have come away from each session with concrete, real-life skills that we can use.”
“The past few years have been the hardest of our life, and you helped more in such a short time than all previous therapists we have seen."
“It is a wonderful thing to help a family. It is a far greater thing to save one.”
The Gottman Method is a model that's to the point and hits home with everyday couples. More importantly, it results in change."
"What I like about counseling with Kerry is her uncanny way of putting me at ease, even with the tough stuff.”
“Our time with NCCT is one that we look forward to because it's when we get to work on "us" and we leave feeling closer."
“When we started going to Paula, we agreed that this was our "last ditch.” It was the best decision we have ever made."
“We are better at all of this – better partners, better parents, better lovers, and far better friends.”
“I think that every couple can benefit from spending some time looking at their relationship, and this is the BY FAR best place for that!”
“You are spectacular at what you do and I enjoyed visiting with you every week."
"NCCT is a group practice of clinicians who truly get what exceptional couples therapy looks like.”
“We have grown as a couple and as individuals who find value in a marriage that was close to unsalvageable.”
“NCCT has helped us understand, in a very nurturing environment, why things change, and how to build a better relationship.”
“Our experience has been more effective, more psychologically and emotionally eye-opening, and more productive than all of our previous counselors combined."
“Working with Kerry over the past year has quite frankly changed me and our relationship in ways I never imagined possible."
“Today, we feel more connected than ever, we have more fun, and we feel optimistic about the future.”
“Rachel helped us fight for our marriage and family instead of fighting each other.”
“Rachel has seen us at our worst and has helped us on our way back to being our best.”
“Without NCCT my marriage would have certainly failed and I would have lost my best friend.”
“Without counseling my marriage would have failed."
“The therapy can be somewhat difficult at times, but the payoff is phenomenal. I've never been happier."
“I'm afraid to think what would happen if we had never made an appointment here."
“Thank you, for healing our family and restoring our love and trust in each other."
“Our relationship has benefited from each session with John. We walk out feeling renewed and ready for challenges.”
"Keith sets the bar when it comes to couples therapy.”
“As soon as we met Stephen, we felt instantly at ease.”
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