When To Call It Quits On Your Relationship

by Kerry Lusignan | Jan 8, 2020 | Courage, Educational

Being in relationship limbo is hard. For most of us, ultimately untenable. It’s understandable to want to bale when you and your partner are always fighting over seemingly insignificant issues, like what to have for dinner or where to park the car. Equally...

Exciting News: Gottman’s Top 10!

by Kerry Lusignan | Dec 31, 2019 | Educational, Relationship

Dear NCCT Friends,We wanted to take a moment and share some exciting news with you. This week, The Gottman Institute featured NCCT’s own Kerry Lusignan in their Top 10 Gottman Relationship Blog Posts of 2019. Kerry’s article, Divorce is the Most...

To couples who risk love in the New Year

by Kerry Lusignan | Dec 20, 2019 | Educational

As we near the end of the holiday season and another year fades into a sea of memories, gratitude, regrets, and dismay, it’s understandable to reflect on our relationships. To ponder what has worked and what has not. To look back at previous years and experience...

Relationship Superpower #5 – Cardiac Manipulation (How to Calm Your Upset Partner)

by Kerry Lusignan | Oct 8, 2019 | Educational

The ability to calm an anxious or angered partner is no small feat.If there is one relationship superpower that borders on being magic; that has an effect akin to sparks flying from your fingertips and bending metal, it’s cardiac manipulation–a relationship...

Relationship Superpower #4 – Emotional Fluency (a.k.a. Omnilingualism of the Heart)

by Kerry Lusignan | Oct 8, 2019 | Educational

If I had to pick just one relationship superpower for the top of my list…a heavy hitter that would get you the most bang for your buck in the arena of love and life, it would be this: Emotional Fluency (a.k.a Omnilingualism of the heart).Now I know this is a...