by Staff Writer | Jan 3, 2018 | Conflict, EFT, Gottman, Retreats
As the only couples counseling practice in Massachusetts that focuses exclusively on treating couples, we take pride in what we do. However, it is also nice to be recognized every now and then. Therefore, we are very proud to announce that last month, NCCT was...
by Staff Writer | Dec 9, 2017 | Conflict, Crisis, Divorce
As we approach the holidays, relationships are on our minds more than ever. What do you buy for that special loved one? What is that “perfect” gift to convey what you are feeling about them? Of course, for couples in a relationship or marriage crisis, the question...
by Staff Writer | Dec 3, 2017 | Conflict, Crisis, Divorce, Gottman, Vulnerability
It’s natural to argue or disagree with each other every once in a while. However, when you find yourself fighting with your partner, and losing respect for the other, it’s time to address the situation before it gets worse. That’s exactly why Gottman...
by Kerry Lusignan | Sep 23, 2017 | Anger, Conflict, Gottman
Being able to shift gears in the heat of an argument and initiate a thoughtful break may be one of the most crucial relationship skills. Breaks can afford you time to cool down, deepen your perspective and have a successful re-do with your partner. But for these to be...
by Kerry Lusignan | Sep 10, 2016 | Anger, Conflict, Crisis, Divorce, Retreats
Who says the good guy always wins? Even if you put in a grueling 40 (plus) hour work week, cook dinners, change diapers, and coach your kid’s soccer team, guess what? You may still not get it right! Despite your best attempts (and successes) at showing up for your...
by Kerry Lusignan | Nov 18, 2014 | Conflict, Courage, Vulnerability
“Let’s think about love. Waking up every day and loving someone who may or may not love us back, whose safety we can't ensure, who may stay in our lives or may leave without a moment's notice, who may be loyal to the day they die or betray us...